💔 Why Do I Keep Attracting the Same Type of Relationship?

Do you find yourself asking:

• “Why can’t I find the right partner?”

• “Why do my relationships always end the same way?”

• “Why do I keep attracting people who cheat, abuse, or abandon me?”

You’re not alone — and it’s not a coincidence.

At Dharma, I hear this from both men and women of all ages, and the patterns are strikingly familiar. The truth is:

We don’t repeat relationships. We repeat unresolved patterns.

The Pattern Looks Different — But Ends the Same

Whether it’s:

• A man going through 3–5 marriages that all end with “she didn’t love me,” or “she was too clingy or jealous”

• A woman in multiple relationships with violent or emotionally unavailable partners

• Clients who keep meeting partners who cheat or disappear

… it’s not just bad luck.

It’s your unconscious trying to get your attention.

The Real Reason Behind Repeating Relationship Patterns

These patterns are mirrors — they reflect unbalanced perceptions we’ve carried from childhood, especially from our relationship with our parents.

Examples:

• A woman who felt her father didn’t love her, wasn’t present, or was abusive may unconsciously seek:

  
  

  • Love

  • Safety

  • Financial support

    …from every man she meets — trying to heal what was never balanced.

  
  

• A man who had a controlling or emotionally absent mother might:

  
  

  • Run from commitment

  • See any emotional need as “control” or “suffocation”

  
  

This isn’t about blame. It’s about awareness.

Painful Memories = Unconscious Protection

Another common root?

A client who experienced a painful breakup or betrayal in the past unconsciously labels love as dangerous.

So what happens?

• The mind protects them by attracting:

  
  

  • Casual connections

  • Emotionally unavailable partners

  • Situationships

    It’s not random — it’s the subconscious keeping you safe from pain it never processed.

  
  

So… What’s the Solution?

Awareness. Consciousness. Equilibrium.

At Dharma, this is what we work on:

• I help you connect with your unconscious patterns

• We explore the emotional root behind why you keep repeating the same experience

• Together, we balance your perceptions from past relationships — especially your earliest ones

• This frees your energy to:

  
  

  • Attract new types of partners

  • Heal your relationship wounds

  • Rewire your unconscious expectations in love

  
  

Healing Begins When the Unseen Becomes Seen

I don’t ask random questions — I ask the right questions.

I help you bring the unseen to the surface, shift your story, and reset your relationship blueprint.

When you bring the unconscious to light — the pattern stops.

Ready to begin your therapy journey? Book a session or contact Dr. Mennatallah today. Call: +201062636343 from inside Egypt or any country around the world.

By: Dr.MennatAllah Elwan

https://www.therapymentalease.com/